Too often we give away our power to other people. We hand it to them, on a silver platter.
Think about how many times a day you let other people decide for you?
It could be you are too afraid to speak out and tell others what YOU want.
Your partner makes a decision for you, thinking they know what is best for you - you listen and comply.
Your boss decides you how much you’re worth, they underpay you and you put in excess hours which you don’t get paid for.
You go along with the crowd cause it’s the easy thing to do yet it's not what sits well with you.
You listen and obey to someone in authority without questioning if it’s true for you.
Do any or all of these resonate with you? I have been there done that (and I still do at times in some cases)
Feeling frustrated and annoyed. Not knowing what to do. Filling your mind with negative self talk (which you also may not be aware of), which leads to self destructive behaviour and then you cover that up with addictions.
You see, we grow up modeling our parents, uncles, aunts, grandparents, and we take on their belief system, which becomes our own however it never was ours. We were taught what was right, wrong, good, bad, positive, negative – all based on the way they saw the world. Was the way they saw it good or bad, right or wrong?
When we give away our personal power, we lose respect for ourselves. Our self-worth dimishes. Our passion disappears. Our life begins to mimick that of those around us, instead of being authentic and unique to us. We lose our voice, our dreams, and our freedom. Giving away your power is giving away your life. The one life you have been given to live.
I have been doing the same. I know within me, I am destined for so much more, yet I stay where its safe, play small, not allow my own light to shine – cause I have been too afraid to get torn down. Or it’s easier to let someone else make all the decisions. I am sure many of you can relate.
This is the kind of thinking which leads to depression, unfulfillment, frustration, anxiety, and self-sabotage. Is this how you want to live the rest of your life? I know I don’t!
You have the strength to confront this. To get your power back. To start making the choices that lead to the life that you actually want to live.
We all have unlimited resources and potential. The first step is bringing all of these hidden beliefs out into the light. Observing them, shining the light on them. Once they are seen, they can no longer hide, or run – we know they are there. The next step is allowing them to die, dissolve, release.
Are you ready to give up your false sense of safety to become the loving, fearless and intuitive being you once were?
The Power is within the NOW. Change your life today. Become your powerful self.
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